SUBMISSION VERSUS RESPONSIBILITY PART 3

Today we are going to complete the Submission Versus Submission series. To read the previous series, click the following links below.

SUBMISSION VERSUS RESPONSIBILITY 1

SUBMISSION VERSUS RESPONSIBILITY 2

So we continue with the following points below;

TAKING/MAKING DECISIONS : One of the responsibilities of being a man is being able to make or take decisions without disregarding the views or opinions of his woman. 

Though he takes or makes the final decision yet puts her opinions and suggestions into consideration. He is flexible in making decisions and always asks what she thinks concerning a thing.

One of the meanings of being a man is being decisive. When a man fails to take sound decisions, his wife would resent him and in turn loose respect before her. 

No woman would respect a man who finds it difficult to take decisions or leaving every decision to her to make or take. 

BEING STRONG : Another responsibility of a man is being strong not just physically but mentally, psychologically, emotionally, financially and even spiritually.

As the head of his wife/home, he takes the lead in being strong in every aspect especially in challenging times. He leads financially, spiritually and otherwise.

A major aspect of a man expressing how strong he is, is being able to control his anger in the face of provocation especially from his woman.

Being able to control his anger doesn't mean he is a weak man but shows how manly he is. This enables him to think straight and then sets limits against such provocation repeating itself.

BEING MANLY : A man has to be manly in every sense of the word. This is one of the responsibilities of being a man. Being a man is not all about being a macho but possessing qualities such as strength, integrity, morals/ethics, courageous even in the face of danger despite the fears being decisive etc.

When a man carries out his responsibilities as a man, then no reasonable or sensible woman will disrespect such a man. If there is any woman with such a man and still disrespects him, then she is a fool to the core.

Quote for the day - "Remember, attraction is only one part of a relationship. Loyalty, commitment, responsibility and maturity make up the rest." - Ruth Westheimer 

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