LOVE IS NOT JUST SKIN DEEP

Hello dear,

Its so good to have you here again. On living life real today lets take a look at love that is not just skin deep. A skin deep love is love based on the surface alone,it's a love that is selfish and a fake kind of love with lip services and no action to back it up. 

We often here the phrase "friends with benefits" which has no emotional attachment and no strings attached. An example is a boy and a girl in a sexual relationship without emotional attachment. They are friends in the day time but sexual partners at night. They practice an open relationship.

Another example is friends of same sex or may be the opposite who claim to be good friends but you get to find one person in the friendship for what he or she would get from the other person. May be one person is from a wealthy home or wealthy himself and then you find people who call them selves friends surrounding such a person but when the ships go down you find no one around. what ever happened to selfless love?

In a relationship where emotions are involved you get to find the other person in the relationship just for sex or for the money. True love never fades. True love will always stand the test of time no matter the situation. In this context a girl stands by her man through thick and thin,through every storm and challenge he faces or their relationship faces and not going after richer men. Same applies to the man who never forgets the girl who stood by him when things were rough and do not run after other girls just because the going is good or goes after younger girls because he feels his lady is aging. Love based on sex and physical attributes without the inner beauty of a person is skin deep love.  

A good man never forgets the sacrifices of the good woman by his side and this often leads to marriage and a great home.

Now lets take a look at our relationship with our jobs. When one is truly in love with his job he enjoys the job no matter the circumstance. Some employees tend to do better jobs when they have their superiors around and when there is no superior the job suffers as they become relaxed and not do what they ought to to do. Can we do our jobs effectively with a supervisor around? It's true most of us are in our present jobs for the money no doubt about that but we can also put it in our best in our jobs. A job without interest its skin deep love for the job.

When an employer exploits his employees to the extreme just for profit making without proper staff welfare services in place then that employer has skin deep love for his employees.

Quote for the day-"You are only as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside"- Anonymous.

What would you prefer? Skin deep love or true love in friendship and how do you spot skin deep love?

    

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